Question by Heyyy Sam: I feel so stuck. I don’t know what to do.?
Okay so I’ll start off by telling everyone. I’m going to high school. The big H-S. well at least to me it seems like that. From my previous understandings I am placed with the idea that high school is a place filled with stress, drama, choices, and lots and lots of studying. Well, and some fun stuffed somewhere in there. Especially in the enclosed and naive town I live in. One thing my small town would be know for are the tight cliques. You know… friendship circles. We’ve got tons of cliques. From popular snotty girls who think they are the sh*t to those individuals called “losers” because they are not afraid to dress/act as they are. Then there is that kinda awkward clique in between. That my friend, would be me. I have a group of friends. They are okay. Do I think of them as true friends? Probably not. But they get me by. Well until now. Now that I am entering high school, I am in the midst of figuring out exactly who I am and what I am looking forward to doing with my life. I have decided that making good, true, and loyal friends would be something incredibly handy and useful to having a happy high school year. I mean hey we only go through these times once! I just don’t feel like the friends I have now I entirely connect with. I am a very deep and intellectual person, I like to talk about things and converse ideas with others. My friends don’t run deep. They don’t understand the things I enjoy talking about. They care about useless things in like like shopping for shoes, and boys. I mean don’t get me wrong I love having my fare share of hot guy time while strutting the newest pare of shoes, but sometimes I just like to vent my feelings about things and just talk about important things. Like, I hate music now a days. Why should these people get payed millions to rap about how good drinking and drugs are, when there are people dying every day from these topics? Do children understand what they are rapping about when they sing along? More importantly, do their parents know? Anyway, back to my problem. I really want to just find that group of friends. And in my town it’s so d*mn hard because everyone is so tight in their friend group! Also, how do I find these friends? Ugh. I don’t know exactly what I’m asking. Perceive this as you wish. Just give me your input. Sorry it’s so long =/
M– total girl right here buddy! don’t let this article fool ya 
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Answer by M.
In the beginningof your long article, you sounded like a guy, but at the end you sound like a girl. So just go with the flow and make sensible choices as they become available. You can’t plan your future. You have to plan it as it happens. You choose things based on what you understand. So keep your eyes and ears open. Do what’s best for you.
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I know exactly what you’re feeling right now.
I’m going into my last year of high school now, and my god. It’s been a trip.
First off, you will be meeting a lot of new people, so you shouldn’t be concerned about that.
There will be a lot of drama … a lot, and a whole lot of stress. This could be a good thing though, because all the drama and things that happened to me in high school made me a stronger person, as cliche as that sounds. You will learn a lot about yourself.
Get ready for the fun.
From personal experience, high school especially if its public their will always be drama, boys, friends, blah blah blah and I guess what public schools call “stress”. Why did I quote the word “stress”?Because once you go through something difficult in life you will find out that whatever your going in school is not call “stress” I mean right now you might think it’s scary but it’s not. So what if theirs groups try to be in sports something you like..or just dare to be different…don’t care what others might think of you.Your the only person who knows what you like. About the friends situation don’t worry I’m sure you will meet new friends and new ones every year or every once in while but you will. Once you go to college it’s going to be a total different path because you become more independent and you decide who to really have contact with. Especially how you mention you live in a small town so I’m sure you will want to get out of their and explore what else is there.Dream Big what do you have to lose and don’t ever let someone influence you for the bad.:)Good Luck.:)