Question by Rita Skeeter™ O-M-G!: Mega problem at school? Help?
Hi! How are you guys doing? I hope your fine! 
Okay so my problem is not so big but I’m a little worried.. Okay so my best friend from a long time ago is coming to my school.. She used to go to another school but she got kicked out so she is coming to my school. We used to be really close but we separated schools when we started middle school. I know that I’m going to be seeing her a lot so I know its going to be a little awkward..
Okay so the real problem is that I basically hang out with the losers of the school (as other people call them). But when you get to know them they are genuine and very calm so I like them. So I know that my friend is going to be watching who I sit with at lunch and everything… And I know that she will be saying some rude things probably. We aren’t really close anymore but I just don’t want her to see me with the so called “losers” of the school. I don’t feel ashamed of my friends or anything but what I want to avoid is a conflict between us. Once she finds out who I hang out with she is going to make some remarks about it for sure. What should I do? Just keep my friends and move on..? Or try to make new friends and be a completely different person who I know I am not…?
Some advice would be very helpful at this moment since school is going to start in a few weeks time. Thank you again.
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Answer by I Play To Much Video Games
Thats how everyone is. I dont like my freinds freinds and they dont like my friends. Its normal. Your still the same person so why would she think different of you cause of who you hang out with.
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If she is a true friend she will like you for who you are. I would not ever change who you are for anyone! You sound like a great person. Quit calling your friends losers, its those people who end up the best in the end.
OK just keep hanging with the friends your hanging out with
IF she really still wants to be close to you she wont make any remarks and if she doesnt FORGET HER
My advice is….screw her and everybody else. You hang out and do what you want to do. My best friends have mohawks and tattoos and a crapload of piercings and I couldn’t care less what other people think, and neither should you. If your friends make you happy, then stick with them. This so called ex-friend sounds like a bitch, so if I were you, I wouldn’t care about her or her dumb remarks. Just shrug it off and move on.
Keep your friends!! They must be your true friends so keep them!! Don’t lose them over this one girl or the rest of the school!! To avoid conflict is to ignore her and don’t say anything to her. Not even eye contact. If she says mean stuff to you, then just walk away…